February 2, 2025
Our church is lively, it’s loud and fun and most Sundays we are completely outnumbered by babies! Yesterday at Neema church on campus after all the babies had returned to their homes and the soccer kids had herded out to eat at the picnic tables and the MAP moms and nannies had finished one last song, the building was finally emptied and quiet… except one.
There was still one baby left.
It took a while for Kim and Kelle to piece it all back together and finally the guards and cameras we had installed to protect the babies told the story.
This Sunday one of our ex-MAP moms with her special needs baby, Nadri, had visited Neema church. At some point she left the building to go to the bathroom at the school across the courtyard, but instead walked out the gate and left the church. After searching, the Mom was found and brought to the office to see why she had left the baby.
She had been one of our MAP moms who finished our program a few years back and we had set her up in a used clothing business. At first, she did well but Nadri had special needs and was sick often and in the hospital. This year the hospital took all her profits. She had been able to pay her last year’s rent, but this year when rent was due for the year she was broke. The landlord locked the house with all her property and she had nowhere to go. So, she came back to Neema Village.
In the office Kim and Kelle listened to the sad story that we have heard so many times. Family, husbands, society abandons the mom with a handicap baby, she might be cursed. We have heard it so often it grips my gut, you know that feeling of mad and frustrated and helpless and angry and you just want to yell at somebody?
Tonight, little Nadri slept with a full tummy in the Hallelujah house for special needs babies at Neema. Mom left but will return Monday to visit with Angel and Anna to see how Neema can best help.
We’ve had babies left in latrines, on the sides of roads, on a bench in the bus station, under a bush, anywhere a desperate mom reaches the point where she feels her baby will be better off anywhere but with her. This was our first left at church. It was better than most.
Doreen, with the big smile above, one of our MAP moms with her little guy and a new stroller.
We have been trying to provide strollers for our bigger special needs babies. It is hard for the moms to carry these big babies on their backs.
We have also talked with Dr. Sarun about starting a support group for moms with special needs babies. They need to know they are not alone.
Bless those of you who have helped buy strollers for our MAP moms.
Love,
Bibi and Babu